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    PostSubject: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Sat Mar 28, 2015 1:01 am

    Hi all

    I finally got divorced last Thursday and it feels amazing!!!! 18months of pure hell are now over and I can get on with my life!!!

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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Mon Mar 30, 2015 1:47 am

    Congratulations! You must feel liberated!
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Mon Mar 30, 2015 4:29 am

    It feels amazing!! My headspace is clear and I can get on with my life now. You have no idea how 18 months of legal stress can really drain you!! I feel amazing!! I can get on with my life now sunnysunnysunny
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:22 am

    Just started the long process of getting myself sorted. I will be moving out in the next 3 to 4 months. First stage of the process was a long chat with the ex.
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:23 am

    OH MY GOD!!!!!! you did the chat?? how did it go???? 3-4 months??
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:29 am

    We want it sorted by the end of the summer. Chatted about child's care, finances...
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:30 am

    That's brilliant that you spoke finally!! sounds really productive. Was it a good conclusion?? ending??
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:33 am

    It's still early stage but we seem to agree on the mains. it's all in the details.
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:34 am

    brilliant Cherie!!!! I'm so pleased. Small steps. It takes time....
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:38 am

    It's stressful
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:40 am

    yep. At least you don't have to go to court!!!! don't even talk to me about HOW stressful THAT is!!!! still, like I said Cherie, small steps. It probably seems really daunting at the moment and scary and a big mountain but just take small steps. Make a plan. Write that plan down on a timescale. So: April - Goal. To Do. May - Goal. To Do. June - Goal. To Do. It will REALLY help you keep focused and organised.
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:47 am

    Yes write things down and one step at a time. It does feel like a mountain to climb. Quite overwhelming! Can't believe it's going to happen...and soon
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:52 am

    Sounds very clinical, but treat it like organising a big event. So write it all down step by step. Everything. Where you will live, where your son will go to school, where you work, travelling, doctors, dentists etc and organise it all into months as I said above. What is the first step? what will you be doing in April to start this process? then what can be done in May? who do you have to notify? even changing your address with friends and professionals. Do it all month by month then you'll see that some things you won't need to do for another 3 months but some things you'll need to do immediately. I can help you with this Cherie x
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 9:00 am

    Thank you. Very appreciated. Next step is finance.
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 9:29 am

    I can't help with finances sorry....I had to count today on my fingers how many hours from 1pm to 3pm!!!! then I realised how stupid it was!!!!!! lol
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    PostSubject: Re: JUST DIVORCED!!!   Tue Mar 31, 2015 8:44 pm

    I see. That bad!? Lol...
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